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Wednesday
Apr182012

Return to India, Part 7-B: On the painted holiday of the final full moon of winter, Sujitha and Kruthika go back to get a necklace

 

 

 

The next day, Sujitha's cousin Kruthika came by and then the three walked about two blocks to this spot to catch a ric. Suji still did not have her necklace. She had to have it. Maybe with Kru's help, she could make her choice.

Right after we reached the place about two blocks away where the rics waited, two painted young men came strolling by. It was Holi - a religious holiday celebrated on the day of the last full moon in winter. To say goodbye to winter (such as winter be) and welcome spring, participants splatter each other with color in giant paint fights. Holi originated in the north and is most heavily celebrated there, but the numbers of people in the south who participate in south Indian is steadily growing.

Rising above us all is the unfinished Metro, being constructed to ease the congestion of Bangalore and speed up the flow of people. Although I heard complaints about the pace of construction, I was astounded see how far the Metro has advanced since I was here in 2009. Similar metro trains are being built, with federal help, across India. I saw them in all the major cities we visited. India is moving forward.

I now have a great urge to do some editorializing about the situation in the US, but I will refrain.

On the way back to the necklace store, we passed by a now-deserted Holi gathering.

Back at the store, Suji and Kru studied necklaces as they climbed the steps into the jewelry store.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Upstairs, Suji laid a necklace against the saree she would need to wear a necklace with to see how it matched. It didn't quite make it.

So they looked at another. Suji decided to try it on.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Kruthika studied the necklace on Suji as Suji checked it out in the mirror. I saw nothing but beauty.

Kruthika took a close look at the necklace itself.

They looked at another....

...then laid it down to compare with still another...

 

 

 

 

 

 

They stepped away from the necklaces to think about them for awhile and Kru found a set of huge earrings. The two cousins - who, in their cultural way, are sisters - tried to imagine what someone who dared to wear them would look like.

They took a look as this hair clip, but rejected it.

Next, they turned their attention to reasonably-sized ear rings.

A salesboy laid out a whole new selection of necklaces before them.

Suji did, in fact, settle on a necklace. I will post the wedding probably Friday... no, more likely Saturday. If you come back, you can see for yourself what necklace she chose. When I was the age the salesboy appears to be, I had a paper route. Once I saved up enough money to buy a surf board, I did. Then I said "to hell with work" and went surfing.

Then they went downstairs to buy make-up and such. I was glad to see women working in the makeup store.

Suji then treated Kru and me to mango milk drinks. They were cold, and good. And yes, I joined the toast, too - but I had to get my picture first.

 

 

 

 

 

Lavith Goletcha, son of Hemanth, came in from celebrating Holi to the same refreshment shop to get a cold drink of his own - but he never woke up to drink it. 

We caught a ric and returned to the house. Suji's henna appointment was scheduled for 6:00 AM at the house. I don't remember what time we all settled down and went to bed, but it wasn't early. I was still jet-lagged and did not want to get up that early, but there was no way I was going to miss the henna painting.

Not long after the henna was done, we would board the train to Pune.

 

 

 

Series index:

India series, part 1: With a little help from the Indian Air Force, I begin my India series without actually beginning it
Return to India, Part 2: Pain beneath the fan, a sprawling tree, monkey on a string; those I would soon join on a train ride; the garland
Return to India, Part 3: My Facebook friend, Ramz, her mischievous brother, her nationally recognized achiever mom, her dad at the wheel
India series, Part 4: When you overtake an elephant on the highway, be sure to pass on the right; birthday remembrance; In Wasilla, pass "oversize" on the left
Return to India, Part 5: I wander the cold, empty, streets of Bangalore
Return to India, Part 6: A cow, blessed and safe; Suji takes me to lunch, then goes out with Bhanu to do some wedding shopping
Return to India, Part 7-A: A three-snack outing as mother and daughter shop for Suji's wedding
Return to India, Part 7-B: On the painted holiday of the final full moon of winter, Sujitha and Kruthika go back to get a necklace
A spacer only - the Buddha and the glamour poster ad
Return to India, Part 8: henna, to highlight her beauty and deepen the love between bride and groom; a moment on the way to the train
Return to India, Part 9: A prayer and a blessing for Suji; we head for the train; three calls to Manu
Time for another spacer - the green man who showed up at the railroad station
Return to India, Part 10: The train to Pune, part 2: Sujitha by the window as a thin thread of her India flows by
Return to India, Part 11: On the train, part 3: Ganesh Ravi - Photographer: how we discovered his hidden talent
Return to India, Part 12: On the train, part 4: After dark
Return to India, Part 13: train ride, part 5: we click and clatter into Pune, take a perilous walk and step into a world beyond imagination
Return to India, Part 14: The groom his wedding suit; me in mine
Return to India, Part 15: A function to mark the final night Sujitha would spend with her family before the wedding
Return to India, Part 16: Inside the Biradar house: portrait of an elder woman - portrait of a young girl
Return to India, Part 17: We dine in the home of the groom's parents, then join in the Puja of Kalasha
Return to India, Part 18: Slideshow: Sujitha and Manoj at the wedding hall - Engagement and Haldi Night
Return to India, Part 19: The wedding band, in the visual style of Sgt. Pepper's (10 image slide show)
Return to India, Part 20: The groom rides a white horse to the temple, there is dancing in the street; Sujitha and Manoj are wed
Return to India, Part 21 - Benediction: Sujitha takes me to the sacred waters; fish dine - a crow flies
Tuesday
Apr172012

Return to India, Part 7-A: A three-snack outing as mother and daughter shop for Suji's wedding

Sujitha, the bride-to-be and her mother, Bhanu, out on the streets of Bangalore as they shop for the upcoming wedding.

First, they stop at a tailor shop where one of the outfits Suji will wear during her wedding is being custom measured and fit just for her.

As she waits for the tailors, Suji and her mother look at more clothing being sold on the outside of the shop.

Snack break, #1:

After the she picks up the outfit, Suji knows her mother and Uncle Bill need a sweet snack. So she takes us to a nearby shop and orders one.

She feeds a bit of the snack to her mom. It was sweet to max - fruity, and juicy.

Then they shop for the bride and groom dolls that will stand on the wedding platform with Sujitha and Manoj as they get married.

They stop at a shop filled with the religious implements of Hindu faith. In addition to things like dolls, there will be many items on the wedding platform with them - many types of fruit, oil lamps, rice - many things. They will need small platforms upon which to perch many of these items.

Bhanu, inside the store so well stocked with representations of the Gods of her faith.

They will need a portrait of Lakshmi, the Goddess of Wealth and Prosperity for both spiritual and material matters. In my upcoming coverage of the wedding, the use of the Lakshmi portrait will become clear.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Snack Break, #2: Suji buys a banana for each of us. 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

After our snack, we pass by a stairway enclave where where a young artist applies henna to a young woman. Two mornings from now, Suji will get her henna. Yes, it will be in this blog.

A fabric seller beckons Bhanu and Suji into his shop.

They went in, selected fabric they liked, and bought it.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

A portrait of Manoj looks up from Suji's pocket book as she pays for some of the items she will take to her wedding. Manoj waits for his bride in his hometown of Pune.

In one shop we visited, Suji picked out an outfit for the small daughter of some close friends who now live in California. 

Then she began to look at these suits, sized for baby boys. "There must be a little boy, too," I speculated. "Yes," Suji said. "There is a little boy. His name is Lynxton." And so I wound up bringing an India Indian suit home for my youngest Navajo-Apache Indian grandson.

She spent quite a bit of time examining bangles before she picked out the ones she wanted.

When I was a boy, Mom would take me shopping with her whenever she bought clothing or fabric. It was total misery. As I grew, clothing shopping with women remained total misery - even with Margie. The sales people were mostly all women - a man here and there, perhaps, but mostly women - women selling women's clothes to women.

In my three trips to India, each of which took me into clothing stores, I do not recall seeing a single clothing saleswoman - not for women's clothing or men's, either. All the clerks have been men. This seems unfair to me - both to the women who could be doing the sales but even more unfair to the poor men who are.

That said, I truly enjoyed myself on this shopping trip - because I had a camera in hand. When a person such as me holds a camera, nothing is boring. Everything is interesting. Suji and Bhanu made it all the more so.

I had a blast shooting Suji's wedding shopping spree.

I could have filled this entire post with pictures of Suji and Bhanu looking for just the right necklace for suji to wear at her wedding. She looked at many, but none were right. "I had always thought Soundu would be here to help me," she lamented. Soundarya had a highly-honed sense of style. Picking out just the right necklace would have been easy with Soundu along, Suji mused.

In the end, none suited her, so we left with no necklace. We would wait until the next evening, then Suji would try again - this time with her cousin, Kruthika, who will star with her in part 7-B. I will finish 7-B before I go to bed, then time it to post some time in the early morning hours.*

Snack #3:

Before we left for home, Suji treated us all to juice freshly squeezed at this juice bar.

We hailed an auto-ric and climbed inside. We put our heads together so that I could get a portrait of the three of us. Then we went home.

 

* It is now 12:50 AM Wednesday and I have finished 7-B, but I feel like I need to leave 7A up a little longer, so I will wait until late morning or early afternoon to post it.

 

 

 

Series index:

India series, part 1: With a little help from the Indian Air Force, I begin my India series without actually beginning it
Return to India, Part 2: Pain beneath the fan, a sprawling tree, monkey on a string; those I would soon join on a train ride; the garland
Return to India, Part 3: My Facebook friend, Ramz, her mischievous brother, her nationally recognized achiever mom, her dad at the wheel
India series, Part 4: When you overtake an elephant on the highway, be sure to pass on the right; birthday remembrance; In Wasilla, pass "oversize" on the left
Return to India, Part 5: I wander the cold, empty, streets of Bangalore
Return to India, Part 6: A cow, blessed and safe; Suji takes me to lunch, then goes out with Bhanu to do some wedding shopping
Return to India, Part 7-A: A three-snack outing as mother and daughter shop for Suji's wedding
Return to India, Part 7-B: On the painted holiday of the final full moon of winter, Sujitha and Kruthika go back to get a necklace
A spacer only - the Buddha and the glamour poster ad
Return to India, Part 8: henna, to highlight her beauty and deepen the love between bride and groom; a moment on the way to the train
Return to India, Part 9: A prayer and a blessing for Suji; we head for the train; three calls to Manu
Time for another spacer - the green man who showed up at the railroad station
Return to India, Part 10: The train to Pune, part 2: Sujitha by the window as a thin thread of her India flows by
Return to India, Part 11: On the train, part 3: Ganesh Ravi - Photographer: how we discovered his hidden talent
Return to India, Part 12: On the train, part 4: After dark
Return to India, Part 13: train ride, part 5: we click and clatter into Pune, take a perilous walk and step into a world beyond imagination
Return to India, Part 14: The groom his wedding suit; me in mine
Return to India, Part 15: A function to mark the final night Sujitha would spend with her family before the wedding
Return to India, Part 16: Inside the Biradar house: portrait of an elder woman - portrait of a young girl
Return to India, Part 17: We dine in the home of the groom's parents, then join in the Puja of Kalasha
Return to India, Part 18: Slideshow: Sujitha and Manoj at the wedding hall - Engagement and Haldi Night
Return to India, Part 19: The wedding band, in the visual style of Sgt. Pepper's (10 image slide show)
Return to India, Part 20: The groom rides a white horse to the temple, there is dancing in the street; Sujitha and Manoj are wed
Return to India, Part 21 - Benediction: Sujitha takes me to the sacred waters; fish dine - a crow flies